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“THE SUBTLE ART OF FLIRTING” TIPS TO TANTALIZE

1/1/1900

A giggle. A sigh. A light touch. There are many styles of flirting, but the goal remains the same, to beguile the object of your affection. Here are some quick tips on how to tantalize from The Right One and Together Dating, the largest dating service in the world with over 90 locations throughout the United States.

There are many styles of flirting, but the goal remains the same, to beguile the object of your affection. Here are some quick tips on how to tantalize from The Right One and Together Dating, the largest dating service in the world with over 90 locations throughout the United States.

1. Flattery detonates the charge of flirting. Used thoughtfully and subtly, flattery sizzles when it's unexpected.
• First, determine what strikes you about the object of your desire.
• Consider what aspects of his/her self, personality, and/or accomplishments others might not have celebrated.
• Aim your comment to be delightful and surprising.
• For example, telling a lawyer that she's an excellent speaker is nice. Saying you love her wit and her smile might just make her day.
• Letting a banker know that the wave of his hair drives you wild is much more satisfying than saying how great you think his money-managing skills are.

2. And their eyes met across a crowded room…An eye for an eye in romance can open the windows on two souls. Nothing is quite as exhilarating as catching an appealing glint from across the room—don't be scared—look right back, drop your eyes for effect, and try to catch that eye again later.

3. Flirting is all fun and games. Playing cards, chess or other games allows many opportunities for mirth and wit, the helpmeets of flirtation.

4. Reach out and touch someone.
• Footsie (FTSE) isn't just a stock exchange in London. If your feet meet under the table and it feels right, don't pull away—a strong energy current is known to pass from foot to foot.
• Touching someone's arm to emphasize a point while you're talking is an engaging technique.
• You may even feel so bold as to run your fingers through the other's hair as you compliment him on the color or style. This is especially effective for ladies to men since it's wonderfully unexpected for the man and men's haircuts are usually shorter and simpler allowing a smooth run-through.

5. CHOW, and how! Light treats like strawberries or angel food cake, maybe dipped in chocolate fondue, or melon balls, shrimp cocktail, peel and eat mangoes together—foods you can get your fingers around or spike with a fondue fork are fun to flirt with.

6. Flirt with your appearance. Ladies, men often see hair worn up as flirtatious and sexy. Men, women find a man in a suit with a flower in his lapel, almost too charming to resist. Having fun with your attire—something subtly offbeat—is a visual invitation to romance.

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